Documents associated with: quarrel (Haden)
Record 38 of 142
System Number: 12964
Date: 14 June 1867
Author: Dante Gabriel Rossetti
Recipient: Rodolph Nicholson Wornum
Repository: Victoria & Albert Museum, London
Call Number: National Art Library, PC12/6 MSL/1952/1353/2/6/6
Document Type: ALS
June 14th 1867
[bi-circular letterhead with tree motif and motto, and monogram:]
FRANGAS NON FLECTAS / DGR
16 CHEYNE WALK.
My dear Wornum
As it seems that the view which strikes us at once has not presented itself to the Committee, will you allow us to bring it through you to their notice, without, as we hope, saying more than two members of [p. 2] the Club are warranted in saying -
We certainly venture to think that the Committee has lacked due consideration in entertaining up to so advanced a stage of proceedings the personal complaint made by one member against another, without making that other at all [
illegible] acquainted with their movements - In fact, we cannot but conceive [p. 3] that some apology is now owing in the first instance to Mr Whistler, whatever might be the further issue of events.
That a number of gentlemen should discuss the concerns of another and act on their conclusions without making him in any way a party to this course of affairs, seems such an anomaly in social intercourse and in the courtesy from which club-life does not surely exempt individuals, that, being
once pointed out, [p. 4], it must become apparent at once how an undue pressure from one side has warped what cannot but be the normal feeling of the Committee.
This letter is written on the spur of the moment to meet the exigencies of the case in its present stage, and not to deal at present with another apparent anomaly, viz: the introduction of purely personal matters into the business of a Club.
I am, my dear Wornum,
Yours very truly
D. G. Rossetti
R. N. Wornum Esq
4. FRANGAS NON FLECTAS
Lat., 'You will break; you will not bend.'
See R. N. Wornum to JW, #10442. The letter related to JW's recent quarrel with F. S. Haden which led to his alleged assault on Haden in a Paris café. The quarrel concerned Haden's treatment of James Reeves Traer (ca 1834 - d.1867), partner in F. S. Haden's medical practice [more], who died suddenly on 23 April of alcohol related causes, during a trip to Paris. Haden arranged for Traer's burial with what JW and his brother William regarded as unseemly haste. A violent row took place between the brothers-in-law and Haden fell (or was allegedly pushed by JW) through a plate glass window. JW, the Rossetti brothers and Haden were all members of the Burlington Fine Arts Club. In the aftermath of their quarrel Haden campaigned for JW to be excluded from the Club (see JW's account of Haden's allegations in his letter to L. Huth, #02240).